Benefits of co-parenting and children’s wellbeing
Children’s well-being is closely tied to the presence of involved and supportive parents. Unfortunately, not all children have the privilege of growing up in households with both parents present. According to a study by the US Census Bureau,
1 in 4 children in the United States grow up in a home without a father figure, and approximately 1 in 3 children live in a home without a biological father present.
US Census Bureau
This highlights the importance of understanding the impact that absent parents can have on children’s development.
The role of fathers/ mothers in child development
Research has shown that fathers/ mothers play unique roles in their children’s emotional and cognitive development. For example, a study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family found that
fathers who were involved in their children’s lives had children with better academic performance and fewer behavioural problems than those whose fathers were not involved.
Journal of Marriage and Family
Mothers, on the other hand, have been found to play a crucial role in their children’s emotional development, particularly in the formation of secure attachment bonds.
Negative effects of absent parents
Not having one or both parents present can lead to negative outcomes for children. For instance, a study by the National Bureau of Economic Research found that
children who grow up without a father are more likely to drop out of school, have behavioural problems, and face an increased risk of incarceration. Additionally, children who grow up without a mother have been found to experience higher rates of depression and anxiety.
National Bureau of Economic Research
Benefits of Two-Parent Households
Studies have shown that growing up with two involved parents leads to better outcomes for children. For example, a study published in the Journal of Family Psychology found that
children who lived with both biological parents had higher self-esteem, better social skills, and improved mental health compared to children who did not.
Journal of Family Psychology
Additionally, a report by the National Fatherhood Initiative found that
children who grow up with involved fathers are more likely to have better educational outcomes and be more successful in their careers.
National Fatherhood Initiative
Co-parenting after separation/ divorce
It is important for separated or divorced couples to prioritise co-parenting for their child’s well-being. This means working together to make decisions in the child’s best interest, maintaining open and respectful communication, and ensuring that both parents remain involved in the child’s life.
Research has shown that children who have positive relationships with both of their parents after a
divorce or separation have better outcomes in terms of emotional well-being and academic performance.
The role of BOTH parents is crucial
In conclusion, the role of parents in children’s development is crucial, and the absence of one or both parents can have negative effects on children’s academic, emotional, and behavioural outcomes.
It is important for all families, whether together or apart, to prioritise healthy relationships between both mother and father figures. This means ensuring that both parents remain involved in their child’s life, even if they are no longer together. By doing so, we can help ensure that children have the best chance at a healthy and successful future. Society should prioritise and support families to ensure that children grow up in an environment that promotes their well-being.
