What I Need From My Mum & Dad

· I need both of you to stay involved in my life. Please write letters, make
phone calls, and ask me lots of questions.
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· When you don’t stay involved, I feel like I’m not important and that you
don’t really love me.
· Please stop fighting and work hard to get along with each other. Try to
agree on matters related to me. When you fight about me, I think that I
did something wrong and I feel guilty.
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· I want to love you both and enjoy the time that I spend with each of
you.
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· Please support me and the time that I spend with each of you. If you act
jealous or upset, I feel like I need to take sides and love one parent more
than the other.
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· Please communicate directly with my other parent so that I don’t have to
send messages back and forth.
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· When talking about my other parent, please say only nice things, or
don’t say anything at all. When you say mean, unkind things about my
other parent, I feel like you are expecting me to take your side.
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· Please remember that I want both of you to be a part of my life. I count
on my mum and dad to raise me, to teach me what is important, and

to help me when I have problems.

Dear,
Parents/grandparents/guardians,
Children need both parents so that they learn the importance of both
influences:

It is important for children to be surrounded by both parents to
understand the importance of different influences on their lives.
This can help them develop a well-rounded identity and learn how to
respect different perspectives. It also allows them to learn the history of
both sides of their family, giving them a deeper appreciation of their
heritage.
Parents means family:
Parents not only refer to biological parents but adoptive parents, foster
parents, grandparents, and siblings as well. All of these people offer
something different and provide guidance and advice on different
aspects of life.
It is important for children to have strong attachments with all of these
people in order to build a strong and secure family life.
Adults bonds:
As adults, we all need to have meaningful and nurturing relationships
with others in order to be emotionally healthy and fulfilled. This is
especially true for children, who need to have strong bonds with their
parents and other family members in order to be secure in their
environment.
The greatest sin in life is to knowingly and willingly reject the truth:
It is important to always strive to seek the truth and to question what we
are told. We should never blindly accept something without making an
effort to understand it. The greatest sin in life is to knowingly and
willingly reject the truth.
In a world full of deceptive information and lies, it is crucial to stay
grounded in what we know is true, and to be open to new perspectives
and ideas. We should strive to question and investigate the world around
us, and to stand firmly on the side of what we believe is right.
This includes taking the time to understand the motives and intentions of
others, and to be able to see the world through their eyes. When we
have an open mind and are willing to accept different perspectives, then
we can truly understand the truth and make decisions that are in line
with our own personal beliefs.

It is also important to realize that the truth is not always easy to accept.
We may have to confront uncomfortable facts or challenge our own
beliefs in order to find out what is true. This can be difficult, but it is
necessary if we are to make decisions that are in line with our own
values and beliefs.
Rejecting the truth can lead to serious consequences and can damage
our relationships with others, so it is important to be open to new ideas
and to be willing to accept the truth, no matter how difficult it may be.
Finally, it is important to remember that the truth is not always absolute,
and that it can change over time. We must be open to new information
and perspectives, and be willing to reconsider our beliefs if they are
challenged. We should also strive to be tolerant of others, and to accept
that not everyone may share the same opinion or perspective. By being
open to different points of view and accepting the truth, even when it is
difficult, we can ensure that we are on the right path and that our actions
reflect our beliefs.