What is Mediation?

Mediation is a private process in which a neutral third party, known as a mediator, helps parties discuss and attempt to resolve their dispute.

This gives the parties the opportunity to express their interests, feelings, and knowledge while providing each other with information.

The mediator does not have the power to make a decision but can help the parties find a resolution that is mutually acceptable. If the parties reach an agreement, the mediator can help reduce the agreement to a written contract that is enforceable in court.

Seven steps mediation process

  • 1. Determine if both parties are willing to participate in mediation: Before beginning the mediation process, both parties must agree to participate.
  • 2. Find a qualified mediator: It is important to find a skilled mediator who is experienced in family matters and has a successful track record.
  • 3. Prepare for the mediation session: Each party should prepare in advance by gathering all documents, details, and evidence related to the dispute.
  • 4. Attend the mediation session: Both parties should attend the session, where the mediator will guide them through the dispute resolution process.
  • 5. Negotiate an agreement: The mediator will help the parties negotiate an agreement that is mutually acceptable.
  • 6. Reduce agreement to writing: The mediator may help reduce the agreement to a written contract that is enforceable in court.
  • 7. Follow through with the agreement: Both parties should follow through with the agreement to ensure its successful implementation.

The benefits of mediation

Most divorcing couples are able to settle their case in mediation, which significantly shortens the time to get a divorce. With the help of a skilled family mediator, close to 100% of cases can be successfully resolved within a few sessions.

This process can benefit both parents and children by teaching them how to communicate, cooperate, mediate, and agree.

Mediation can also save families money as it eliminates the need for lengthy and costly court proceedings.

Mediation is a great alternative to traditional litigation in divorce cases, as it allows the parties to negotiate a resolution that is mutually acceptable.

A reminder of the mediation process

It is important to find a qualified mediator who is experienced in family matters and has a successful track record.

The parties should also prepare in advance by gathering all documents, details, and evidence related to the dispute.

Once the mediation session begins, the mediator will help the parties negotiate an agreement that is mutually acceptable.

The mediator may also help reduce the agreement to a written contract that is enforceable in court.

Finally, both parties should follow through with the agreement to ensure its successful implementation.